For"give" to For"get"
Greetings! Here are some thoughts on what they meant by ' forgive and forget ' when they started saying it. (And why it is better than 'give and get' and of course 'get and give' or 'get and get' .......) For-give = Give 'before' you get Means: Give love, compassion, trust etc before getting back (or irrespective of not getting) any love,compassion, trust in return. For-get = Get 'before' you get Means: After you really forgive , you get the "happiness released when you give" even before getting the love, compassion, trust, or a simple thank-you (or irrespective of not getting even a thanks). If you notice here, none of the 2 activities are really dependent on 'others' and hence can be done without giving any reasons (pointing fingers). It is very very simple, but for our bloated egos that we have to carry on our heads. Here is a recent conversation with a Rikshawallah ( RW ) which made me think. Let